9.15.2011

Post-Partum Blues

It's been a while since I blogged and while I have so many ideas in my head, my toddlers don't allow me much time (or energy at the end of the day) to finish what I start.  I have 3 baskets of clean laundry that still need folding...but here I sit, writing to all of you instead!  :)

Over the past few weeks, I am astonished by the amount of ladies I have met that have felt comfortable enough to open up to me about struggling with some post-partum baby blues.  I try to refrain from using the whole "D-word" because it's a little intimidating, BUT, call it what you call it, the feelings are still the same.  From women who adopted their little ones, to women who had quick and easy, to long and hard labors, so many women grapple with these overwhelming feelings once they become parents.  And, while I don't believe women specifically, are alone in these feelings, I am not addressing (in this post, anyway) the symptoms of post-partum struggles in men.

From my many discussions recently, I have found some common "issues" that cause us women to feel a little (or a lot) blue:

  • physical changes brought on by pregnancy and/or delivery- for some its the extra skin in the tummy area, or the the lack of tone, others its the recovery from a tough delivery, and for others it's the lack of personal time to achieve a put-together look.  
  • emotional rollercoasters - it's not a myth- those post-pregnancy hormones are no laughing matter!  Well, maybe one minute they are, and the next they are full-blown tears, and then anger, and doubt, and well, you see...a whole slew of feelings arise from the mere hormonal changes, not to consider the...
  • emotional bond that is so fresh and new and overwhelming between the mother and child.  Many of the women I talked to said they never expected to feel so much responsibility and doubt about their capabilities as a mother.
  • And, sort of the "umbrella" to under which all of the others fall, every single mother I met said they felt like they lost who they were.  
I have to say that the first and last symptoms were the most common for me.  I was a such a different body shape after my first, and I had these preconceived notions that I would just fit into the clothes in a few months after I had the baby.  That was not the case and therefore, I had a closet full of stylish, cute clothes that I couldn't wear.  In addition, I had a really tough birth the first time around and, in hindsight, think I probably had a little post-traumatic stress because of it.  I remember feeling like I couldn't remember who I was before I was a parent.  I couldn't wear the clothes I liked, so, I was forced to wear the clothes that fit.  In my opinion, nothing looked good.  Nothing resembled "me".  And, I had no time to do my hair, makeup, or any other the other things I once enjoyed....No blaring music while I cleaned, because - OOPS, Baby's sleeping!  No long bubble baths because- BABY needs feeding!  No running to get a pedicure because- "Inevitably, the baby is going to NEED me!".  Some of this was self-imposed- like the baby NEEDING me...I often felt like I couldn't leave because I chose to have this baby and I needed to be there, 100% of the time.  And while I still feel that I should be there most of the time, I no longer feel guilty about putting the kids in the kids room at the gym for an hour, or leaving to go grocery shopping in peace, or to just go OUT without them for a bit.  I still think about them a lot when I'm not with them, but I have started to find myself again.  When I am on the treadmill at the gym, I BLAIR my favorite songs because that's when I can!  I feel great afterwards!  It puts me back in touch with "me" and what I like, not just what my kids like.  Going to the gym automatically makes me want to eat healthier during the day because I don't want to undo what I did!  And, over time, it's helped me lose weight, feel stronger, and more toned.  When I get home, I take a shower, do my hair (if I can, time is still an issue), but I always do my makeup.  It's my "happy pill".  It makes me feel good!  When I am wearing makeup, I look in the mirror and feel like I look healthy.  I don't immediately see the dark circles under my eyes or the lines creeping up, I see a put-together mom who is, in little ways, putting herself first.  The little ways add up to big ways and eventually, the clouds clear, and you're able to enjoy yourself, the beautiful babies who are a huge part of you (but don't make you), and the process of re-creating who you are each and every day.  

So, if you haven't already, go put on a clean shirt, spritz some perfume, put a little gloss on, play your favorite song, put on a great outfit (even if you're staying home!  It's not a waste if it makes you feel good!)....  I promise, you will really enjoy it!  :)



Every situation is different and some women experience a more serious form of baby blues than others.  Not all of us will need professional help to emerge from post-partum depression, but some will.  If you or someone you know thinks that they are struggling and needs help, listen.  There is no shame in talking to someone that can help you/them feel better.  

8.26.2011

Fall Color Preview - NAILS!

Ok, so, a little later than previously promised, but my little cherubs have been extra needy lately.  For one, I now have a potty-trained 3 year old and this requires a lot more bathroom cleaning (ew!) and then the little lady is going through her own thing...Not sure what it is or if maybe it's Irene-related, but she's a little crankster lately.  Talk about crying!  My ears are still ringing and they've been sleeping for about 10 mins!  Anyway, let's get to the fun stuff and the reason you're here (it's certainly not to read about my kiddos!)...

FALL COLOR!  Yep, I can already feel the change in the air and when you walk into Macy's all of the fall stuff is out!  Think:  rain coats and clogs and jeans!  It's almost that time!  Here're the colors we're expecting to see a lot of this season!

Nail Colors:
It's gonna be a "nude" Autumn.  Skin-toned nail colors are all the buzz on the runways around the world.  With Chanel launching it's line with graphite, quartz, and peridot inspired hues and Jenna Hipp with her "nude" line, muted colors seem to be in.



But for you color-loving ladies out there- have no fear, I did find another set of trends that defy the muted palettes above- DENIM and Crackle nails!  Chanel, Dior, Zoya, and a few other brands have there own "denim" hues and Avon & OPI are both setting the stage with "crackle" nail laquer.  Very cool stuff!  See below:



One thing I have learned from researching these nail trends is that longer nails are not as popular as shorter, nicely shaped nails like the ones above!

Hope you enjoy!:)

8.18.2011

Baby Toes

Tonight, I painted my little girls toenails for the first time ever.  Okay, she's only 15 months old, but still!  I have to say that words cannot even describe the giddiness I felt as I watched her touch her toes in awe!  It was pure sweetness!  :o)

On another note, how's everybody doing with this humidity and rain all across the country?  This is a great time for face powder, dry shampoo, and up-do's!  And don't forget the sunscreen!

I'll be publishing a new post this weekend about all of the new Fall 2011 Color Trends!  Keep your eyes peeled- it's going to be interesting!

In the meantime, take a look at these little piggies and smile- even though they are not my baby's, they are too cute not to post! :)




My heart smiles!  Adorable!

:)

8.11.2011

my makeup lineup

So, I am sure many people wonder what I use from day to day considering I sell an awesome line and have worked with many high end lines over the years.  If your curiosity was killing you, then today you will find peace!  I am baring it all...well, the contents of my makeup bag anyway!

I must put out a disclaimer, however because not all of these items are in my makeup bag.  But, they are in my lineup on a daily basis.  These are my "can't live without" products and if any are missing, it throws off my whole routine.


First up: Skincare!  I preach it and I practice it!

  • Cellular Laboratories De-Aging Facial Cleanser - lightly foaming, fresh, light scent with all kinds of scientific-but-natural de-aging ingredients.  Buy here!
  • Skintelligence Daily Moisture Enhancer- very basic, but wonderful moisturizer that is great for my skin that is prone to dryness.  Scented with Chamomile and Lavender...Who couldn't love that? Shop it here...
  • La Roche Posay Anthelios Ultra Light Face SPF 60- its so silky and smooth and provides amazing sun protection without making your foundation go on cakey.  I LOVE this product and have yet to find one that out-performs it.  Buy here ...

  • Motives Fillable Mineral Brush with Custom Blended Mineral Powder Foundation- I am in love with this power duo this summer!  It's so quick and easy and beats the shine while giving nice, natural coverage.  Easy to just throw in the Louie (ok, diaper bag- a girl can dream, right?!) and go!
  • Custom Blush- I like a color that's in between a coral and a bubble gum pink- I could make up a name but it would probably sound like a crayola color and wouldn't give the right image...Blush...covered!  We do have a new creme blush that I cannot wait to try!  It's going to be great for the winter when I have dry cheeks- will instantly give a dewy glow!  
  • Lip gloss- I have to say, I am not all that brand-loyal when it comes to this.  Lip gloss is fun and I love trying new products.  I do like the Neutrogena one pictured- it's actually a treatment and gloss in one and has SPF 20 which I like.  I love my Motives lip shine in Candlelight and Sugar & Spice.  I also use a Burts Bees stained Lip-Balm, too!
  • Starting with my favorite- the Gel Liner in Little Black Dress!  I LOVE this...it's practically waterproof but doesn't adhere to yours skin forever like some waterproof eye products can- it's fool-proof, doesn't run, easy to apply and comes in a few really nice colors to spice things up.  I mentioned our gel liner before as a must for creating the perfect smokey eye...
  • Angled Liner Brush- MUST, MUST, HAVE!
  • Creme Shadow in Brown Sugar...I like it because its neutral enough but when the light catches it, WOW!  Lovely flecks of color that look great with any eye color.  Easy to apply- with a concealer  brush or with your finger- can't beat it!
  • Motives Lustrafy Mascara- Best Mascara.  period.  And I've tried 'em all.  Lasts forever, thickens and lengthens and defines, and lasts a long time.  Not sure why, but you'll hate it the first week and then it will become a full-blown love affair! :)


And a few other must-haves for me....extra-sharp Tweezerman tweezers, Purell to keep it sanitary, JB Watkins hand creme in Green Tea, a durable nail file, small altoids (I find these keep me from being too rough with my skin....it channels the energy while I am concentrating and I can apply everything a little less rigidly...) and some things I didn't picture- eyelash curler, DKNY Pure perfume, and brow kit to comb & fill in my brows.  



And now, you'll see how these few items can transform a face!

Before (eek!)


AFTER:


Much better :)  That's it folks!  That's all it takes on a daily basis to give you a polished, healthly glow.  I do this routine in about 5 minutes every single day and not only do I look better, but I walk taller, too!  

Be well and be confident!  :)



8.04.2011

Have you tried the Bronzey-Smokey Eye?

So, I decided to play today and create a "new" smokey eye.  And, I impressed myself because the end result was pretty awesome...

I did a typical smokey eye (that is tailored to my hooded lid and almond shaped-deep set eyes) and then for a kick, added a light punch of a creme shadow to the inner corners of the eyes in a bronze color.  It was perfect for my brown eyes and the combination of the bronze, black, and gun-metal shades really looked nice together....And the whole look is virtually impossible to do without 5 very important tools: 1) a really good precision shadow brush,  2) a gel pot eyeliner with 3) an angle liner brush and 4) the right eyeshadows and definitely 5) an eyeshadow base!  Keys to success....add color little by little and BLEND, BLEND, BLEND!



And then I worked out for an hour and got all shiny and decided to take another picture because I was still so impressed with the look, haha :)  Ignore the sheen...


The pictures don't do it justice- (sorry, that's my mediocre little point-and-shoot camera and self-photography....)

Give it a try!  You will love it!

8.02.2011

Thoughts From a Beach

We recently stayed in Ocean City, New Jersey for a week- our first family vacation since we had our first child nearly 3.5 years ago!  Much overdue!  It was wonderful....

I loved sitting on the beach with my kids totally content just playing with one or two toys in the sand quietly for hours at a time.  My husband was also quiet.  The sound of the waves were serene and people-watching was so....intriguing!  I found myself just watching in awe of the awesome and less-than-awesome style choices I noticed.  I loved taking notice of the perfect bodies and, even better, the less than perfect bodies that many men and women wore with confidence!  The entire beach experience was actually quiet cathartic for me.

As I have said before, after having my babies (which I am so thankful for), my body is not the same as it once was.  Certain parts of my body that once were tanned will probably never see the light of day again!  Or so I thought.....I watched many post-baby bellies in bikinis and while some of them really were not appropriate for the suits they were in, some where refreshingly imperfect and inspiring and beautiful!  Probably not the bellies that a 16 year old girl could appreciate but, as a mother, I actually found it quiet beautiful.

I think maybe next summer I will be ready to bare my post-pregnancy stomach and do it with some sense of pride and accomplishment.  Sure, it's not perfect and will never be the stomach someone aspires to have, but, I earned this!

I love this quote from Jennifer Lopez:

"It's important for all types of women to know that you don't have to fit a prototype of what one person thinks is beautiful in order to be beautiful or feel beautiful.... People think, Sexy, big breasts, curvy body, no cellulite. It's not that. Take the girl at the beach with the cellulite legs, wearing her bathing suit the way she likes it, walking with a certain air, comfortable with herself. That woman is sexy. Then you see the perfect girl who's really thin, tugging at her bathing suit, wondering how her hair looks. That's not sexy."
JENNIFER LOPEZ, Readers Digest, Aug. 2003




And this one, too...which I've only come to appreciate as I have transformed through motherhood and age...
"The absence of flaw in beauty is itself a flaw."
HAVELOCK ELLIS, Impressions and Comments

I hope that you all can relate to this and if not, that you will save it in a corner of your mind where you can come back to it later.  I am pretty certain that everyone needs to hear these types of affirmations from time-to-time.  

Be well and be confident and then, you will be beautiful!  :)

7.14.2011

#1 Recommendation to fight aging!

I am always asked how people can avoid aging-- what they can do to reverse the signs of aging and reduce the aging that will appear in the future.  My answer, plain and simple: wear sunscreen!

It's the #1 thing you can and should change to protect your skin (both face and body) from sun damage that can lead to wrinkles, sun spots, and skin texture damage.  That being said, people can be really resistant to this suggestion.  Sometimes it's just too hard to watch their sun-kissed face lose the unhealthy, but preferable glow from the sun.  I definitely understand that.  As a teen and college student, I used to love when I would get some sun on my face- it was instant makeup- I didn't need blush or foundation- I just wore mascara and some lipgloss and I loved this look!  And, I still do.  But, I also meet more and more women every day that are allover the spectrum when it comes to skin care and sunscreen.  I find both extremes to be incredibly inspirational.  The leathery-skinned women instantly look 10+ years older than they are and that's always shocking in a scary way.  The youthful, supple-skinned women are usually the ones that I look at and say "I hope I look like you at that age!"  It's a vast difference and while genetics and other lifestyle factors certainly play a role in how the skin reacts to sun damage, the outcomes are still pretty drastic and amazing and when you consider that they are preventable, they become even more moving!

Since no one puts sunscreen on only half of their face to see how it compares to none, I obviously can't show you facial skin.  But, below is a picture of a woman's chest.  You can see see a clear color difference in the "tanned" skin and the "virgin" skin.  The texture is clearly different and this isn't even a high-definition picture.  The pigments are different- i.e. there are freckles all over the tanned skin, but you can see that the virgin skin has none.  Just the age of the skin looks different.  Judging from the tanned skin, I would guestimate this woman to be about 55-60 years old.  But, from the other area that hasn't been exposed to sun, I would say she was 35-40.

Pretty amazing, huh?  

So, most of our foundations (regardless of where purchased) contain a sunscreen of some degree- I'd say typically between 8-12 SPF).  And while that's better than nothing, I recently came across this product from La Roche Posay.  It's called the Anthelios 60 Ultra Light Sunscreen Fluid and it ranges from about $20-30 depending where you buy it.  I was given a sample of it at a community event and I just got around to trying it.  It's amazing!  It's so light and silky smooth.  It's awesome for under your makeup or just alone.  It's a great, great product and I highly recommend it.  I tend to find that sunscreen sometimes gives makeup a strange finish, but with as fine as this is, it had no effect on how my makeup went on.  



I can also personally recommend Neutrogena's Age Shield + Repair SPF 55 Anti-Aging Sunscreen.  It's about $8 a bottle and Neutrogena is a great, affordable, high quality brand for the money.  I used this before I tried the La Roche Posay and loved it.  It's lightweight, not greasy, and is very affordable.  I have used a few other department store brands and was more impressed with these two products!  



So, whether you have $30 or $10 to spend to protect your skin for a lifetime, it's up to you.  You'll be in great hands with either of these products!  

I hope you will take this post seriously and understand how taking care of your skin now (even if you are starting later in your life) can make a huge difference.  And, of course, it's not all about looks!  You'll also be protecting yourself from skin cancers, too.

Do you have any sunscreens you recommend?

7.12.2011

I moved!

Due to creative constraints that I could no longer work with @ Wordpress, I have now moved this blog to Blogger!  I am already much happier with this change and I hope it will give you a much better reading experience, too!  You can now sign up for my email newsletter which I promise not to spam you with!  I will rarely post more than 3-4 times a week and you can always change your mind later!

I have a few blog posts in the works!  Hopefully I will get to publish them tonight!

Thanks for your continued support!

7.09.2011

Easy, breezy, summer hairstyles (and cuts)....

I have a slight obsession with getting my hair cut!  It has dwindled a bit since I had kids since I no longer have the time and money to get my hair cut/colored as much as I used to, but, I still get all excited when I see a great color or dye job!  So, while many consider makeup to be the "tool" that women (and some men) used to polish their look, I tend to think that a great haircut/style can absolutely do the same!

Here are a few that I think are just perfect for the summer time:

The Tapered Inverted Bob:  It's the newer, more modern, casual-but-stylish version of the old-faithful!  I LOVE this cut- and actually, it's what I am wearing for the summer!  Its easy to maintain, quick to style, cool, and stylish!




Couldn't you see just about anyone wearing this?  Great cut!

I am also a big fan of braids!  In the summer heat, it's a great way to keep hair out of your face and cool while also looking cute!  Another bonus, it's a great way to do your hair if you are just getting back from the beach and don't have time to shower!  You'll see with the next pictures that braids can be cute and stylish without looking like you're 8!




Even though these two girls have long hair, the braided concept could work with shorter hair (like the bob), too!

One of my favorite picks is next- the "messy up do" or "loose bun"...Great for beachy hair to keep it up and off your neck but as you'll see, is very sexy- add a flowered headband or scarf and this could go from day to night in no time!



Cute!  I love, love, love this style!

I hope this gives you some ideas on how to keep cool and still look great and have a pulled-together look without hours under the blow dryer!

What's your favorite???

:)

Beauty Tip #4 - Skin Exfoliating on the CHEAP!

Is the beach-road-warrior lifestyle putting a dent in your wallet and giving you some sun-damaged skin?  I have a quick, easy, effective and CHEAP solution!

In a plastic container (with a sealing lid), mix about 1/4 cup regular granulated sugar or brown sugar with enough Olive Oil to make a paste-like consistency.  The consistency should be easy to spread over your skin without it running off of your hand.  Next time you shower, rub this mixture all over your body (face included) spend a little more time on rough spots (elbows, heels, etc.).  Be very careful, the oil will make the tub slippery!  After massaging into your skin and allowing it to remain on your skin for about 5 minutes, rinse and complete the rest of your shower tasks.  Apply a good moisturizer all over afterwards and you will be amazed at the difference in the texture of your skin!  The sugar acts as an exfoliator and the oil is an emollient.  You would pay upwards of $50 for this in a spa or salon!



This is also great for dry, damaged skin in the winter, too!  You can even make it an aromatheraputic experience by adding a few drops of Lavender oil, cinnamon, or whatever scent you like!  This will be a beauty tip you use over and over!

The mother in me has to remind you of one very important detail- wash the tub after doing this treatment!  We don't want anyone else slipping! :)

6.23.2011

Upcoming blog articles!

Here are some upcoming blog articles!  Stay tuned for....

Dry Shampoo: Is it for you?  And, recommendations!

Money saving beauty tips!

Easy Summer Hairstyles!

 

A Transformation

I think it's time for me to put into words how I have felt over the past 3 years....it's a disservice to other mothers or even those that are just feeling a bit "lost" if I don't share my experience.  There is a lesson here and it's one for you and I both...

When I had my son just over 3 years ago, I remember the first two weeks being pure adrenaline- better than any drug I had ever heard of-- it was "superwoman-mom mode" and I LOVED that feeling.  I actually was excited for it when I was close to having my second!  I anticipated that feeling for weeks before my daughter was born a year ago...

Eventually, the adrenaline died off and exhaustion set in somewhere around the 4th month or so.  I had done pretty well with losing the baby weight up to that point and then...something changed...things got dark...I submerged into this lonely place and I had no idea how to get out of it.

To spare you of every single detail, and to keep this blog relatively readable in length, suffice it to say that my confidence had been broken, my physical well-being damaged by a very difficult birth, and I was wreeling with self-doubt and hopelessness about my role as a mother.  Time went on and I did some patch work on the cracked surface of myself, but, really, the cracks were to the core.  My sweet baby boy had brought about so many changes in my life- some that were great, some that weren't, and some that were just purely unexpected.  It brought up old emotional scars from my own childhood...it put me at odds with the image of myself that I wanted to have as a mother and the mother I had become.  It was a really tumultuous time for me and I never shared it with anyone except for my husband.  Even to this day, I am undecided whether this was post-partum depression or if it was just me going through the process of adjusting to broken expectations that I had placed on myself since I was a little girl...

So, as the months went by, I gradually started to get back into a groove- it still wasn't me, but it was an improvement from where I was.  I was starting to value my appearance again and I was doing some soul-searching, too, trying to figure out ways to regain the characteristics of myself that made me the person I am.

This process is long, well, at least it was for me.  I was probably half-way through all of this when I found out that I was having another baby!  What should have been a joyous time, was tarnished by the fact that I had just been laid off and my husband, too.  We were facing a major transition and I had no idea what to do.  I knew that it would be very difficult to get a new job being pregnant, and though I interviewed multiple times, I found it difficult to find something that would fit into our transforming life as a family.  Either the money wasn't right, the hours weren't right, or, the job just wasn't right.

I had a good friend from college who happened to have a little boy the same age as my son.  Over time and many playdates, she introduced me to the Motives brand and the business opportunity.  I can honestly say that this was a HUGE catalyst for me...it is, still, to this day, what motivates me to keep searching for the person I was before I had children.

So, I bought some of the Motives products off of my friend, just being supportive, not really believing they would be as amazing as they are, and not really thinking that there was a future with the opportunity.  When I bought this makeup, I wore it the very next day.  I felt that if I was going to put this fresh face on, then I needed to put a nice outfit on, too.  This was, in hindsight, a major milestone for me!  I was coming together...

A few weeks passed and, the layoff notice came.  I found out I was pregnant again.  I went through another dark spell.  I felt like a complete shell of the person I was and that I expected myself to be.  I remember thinking that I was  such a loser- to be pregnant AGAIN but with no job- putting all of the pressure on my husband....who, soon, was also out of work.  Luckily, he went back to work very quickly.  I just saw the life I wanted to be living disappearing before my eyes.  My reality and what I had always wanted to be my reality at that point in my life just weren't lining up and it was painful and heartbreaking and disappointing.  I felt my head slipping under water again...

A few weeks out of work, I decided to learn more about the Motives opportunity.  Turns out, its much like a franchise but without a lot of the ugly franchise characteristics.  I had some experience with makeup, having worked for Lancome before and just being interested in the topic.  So, I decided to become a Motives business owner.  I had all of these visions of pounding the pavement (pregnant, with a toddler!), selling the product to every person and salon I met, and basically becoming Donald Trump's nemesis!!!  I had the vision...I did not have the confidence and the will to change.

Skip ahead 9 months...My daughter was born!  It was a very easy birth, luckily and I was up and walking that night.  I was a seasoned vet at this mom thing and no baby blues were going to keep me down!  I was ready to fight off those feelings of self-doubt, sadness, etc...And minus a few bumps along the way, I think I managed relatively well.  I started getting out with my kids early- the more moms I was around, the more I started to reflect on myself...I didn't want to always be "that mom that doesn't work, that wears yoga pants daily, and who always looks like she just woke up"...My appearance was the #1 hangup that I still had...I still was not confident in my style (lacking style, I should say) or my post-baby-body.  I didn't feel attractive.  In addition, I still felt a little weird when people would ask me what I did....I, personally, wanted to have a career, too.  I wanted to have an identity outside of being a mother and wife.  I wanted to be able to create my own income for the family and ...create my own success, too!  A traditional, 9-5 job was not going to work for us.  There were (are) many days that I wished it would, but, it just wasn't going to.  And, I considered letting go of my Motives business and "thinking up" some new business, but, we didn't have the money for that.  So, sort of by default, I decided to make a go of Motives, again.  I decided that it was ALL or NOTHING and this was my chance to make it happen.  I am so glad that I did.

Now, as a rep of a cosmetic line and owner of my own business, I could not go out and meet people (potential clients, business partners, friends) looking like I just rolled out of bed...That is not the image I wanted to portray to people and its definitely not a good representation of Motives and the business.  In other words, I needed to try when I got up in the morning =).  I admit, some days, I just say it's an "off day" and I put the comfy stuff back on, but, most days, I try to look put together.  I always do my makeup!  Its as much personal as it is professional...it makes me feel good about myself and it displays the makeup for others to see.  I don't just buy new clothes for my husband and kids, I get myself some new things now and again, too!  Slowly, I am chipping away at the wall of gloom that had been holding me back for too long.

You see, sometimes, for the love of ourself is not enough.  Sometimes, we have to be forced to do something that in turn, has a huge positive impact on us.  For me, the need to create a way to earn income and have a professional life, lead me to becoming a Motives rep.  Becoming a Motives rep forced me to take care of myself.  In taking care of myself, I have found my confidence and happiness again.  I have seen the dark-side and now I have risen from it.  I feel as though I can do anything now!  There is a saying out there about success- that there are no limits to what we can achieve once we allow ourselves to get out of our own way.  I totally believe that!  The self doubt I was carrying around is gone and I now know that- yes, I won't connect with everyone and I won't find a fan in everyone I meet, but, it's not those that matter.  The ones who support me and who are kind are the ones who matter.  The others just keep it interesting and challenging- otherwise we'd give up!

I guess I am truly transformed because now I focus on working with other moms to help them feel better, too!  It breaks my heart to hear or see another woman struggling because I know just how difficult it is.  I like to give them a new, exciting reason to get dressed in the morning- to do their makeup- to shave their legs- to spray a little perfume...One thing leads to the other and they are smiling a lot more...and enjoying life a lot more.  And, hopefully, they will see the possibility for sun through the storm, too.

My kids are now 3 and 1 and there are still rough days.  But, I greet each and every day with a made-up face and a decent outfit and it's surprising how just those two things can help me feel like I can handle it all.  Motives has been a blessing for me.  I am definitely not saying it's for everyone, but, you have to find something that will inspire you and excite you and give you a reason to get out of your pajamas!  Whatever that is, do it!  One foot in front of the other, you will find yourself transforming, too!

And, last, but not least, I have to say that in taking care of myself, I am able to love my children more.  I don't feel like I "gave up" so much of myself to give them life, now.  I feel like they are the best part of who I am.  Those babies and my husband are why I fought so hard to get where I am today- I owed it to them just as much as myself.  I wanted to be a positive role model for my kids- I didn't want them to remember me being unhappy or emotionally spent- I want them to remember me as a energetic, fun-loving, intelligent, and caring mother.  And now, I finally reflect that.

Thank you for reading this incredibly long post!  Feel free to email me if you'd like to make a personal comment @ nicjoniec@gmail.com, and as always, leave a comment...I love reading them!

Be well:) Nicole

6.18.2011

New Feature!!!!

Hey everyone!  In an effort to gear my topics towards your "likes" and "dislikes" I have incorporated a "rating" bar at the end of each blog article.  I would really, really appreciate it if you would use it so that I can gain a greater knowledge of what you like reading about!  Also, feel free to send me a message @ nicjoniec@gmail.com OR leave a comment!  I would love for this blog to be more interactive!

Thanks again!  Leaving you with an awe-spiring picture!

This is an image from Kevin Aucoin's book, Making Faces.  It's an amazing collection of makeup techniques!  Take a look at this picture......



Can you believe that the person in that photo isn't James Dean?  Leave a comment and tell me who you think it is!

6.17.2011

Because Self-Care Isn't Limited to Women...

In honor of the dads out there, I thought I would write a special blog just for them!  Happy Father's Day, Gent's- I hope you take a thing or two from this!

It's widely known that women primp and preen themselves and feel most confident when they feel beautiful!  I don't think men are all too different...Even the manliest men need a little TLC sometimes!


So here's my list for MEN because they deserve to feel confident and "beautiful" too!:

  1. As awkward as it may be at first, get a pedicure!  If this is just way too much for you, let your wife/lady friend give you one so you can get a feel for what it's like.  I am sure she knows the routine by heart so, it's the next best thing if you are afraid to go "pro"!  Afterwards, your feet will feel rejuvenated and you'll be ready to wear those flip-flops with pride!  I also recommend manicures and usually the nail places have a good package deal for both, just ask.  Heavenly!-- you'll thank me, trust me!

  2. Trim your eyebrows!  YES, men, too!  Usually men can get away with a trim and it won't look "done" they will just look....kept....and that's a good thing!  My hubby (love him!) gets these long whispy hairs from time to time and we just snip them carefully with some nail scissors.  I am not even going to dare give "simple" instructions on this because I don't want hate mail later for botched jobs from guys who didn't "read and follow" the instructions, so, leave it to your barber or stylist- they know what they're doing!

  3. Use Lotion!  I know, I know...you think it's only for dry skin, BUT IT'S NOT!  It's to keep your skin healthy!  Most lotions contain Vitamin A and E and lots of other great additives that will keep your skin looking soft and healthy!  There are many lines out there, Dove and Suave, to name a few, that actually have men's scents so you aren't stuck smelling like a flower- but most brands have a "unscented" option if that's more your speed.

  4. And last but not least (I have to keep the list short or no man will read it!), use a facial moisturizer with SPF.  Not to be morbid, but skin cancer is actually the most common form of cancer in the US (Read more on The Skin Cancer Foundation's website) and it's more prevalent in men.  In addition to protection from the sun's harmful rays, using a moisturizer will smooth your skin helping you to look younger!  Do your homework to keep yourself and your skin healthy and add this one very simple step to your daily routine!  Neutrogena and L'Oreal both have skincare lines for men and they are at a great value (under $13.oo)!


I promise you that if you implement even a few of these recommendations into your busy life, you will feel better about yourself!  Your wives/girlfriends, daughters, mothers, sisters, and just girl-friends, will love you even more for it!

Hope ya'll have a great Father's Day weekend!  :))

Nicole

6.16.2011

It's Summer: Bronzer Season is upon us!

I have to thank a loyal reader for asking me about what bronzer I recommend!  I actually have gotten this question many times.  And for everyone the answer would be a little different.  But, I will go with a good, general answer for now.

So, bronzers are great for adding some "glow" to your skin.  They rise in use during the summer months, but there is absolutely no reason why you can't include them in your beauty routine year round!  They are a great way to add some healthy color to otherwise lifeless skin OR to give the appearance of a tan without the time in the sun!  Two great reasons to use a bronzer!

As far as my recommendation for a great bronzer, these are my favorite:

1) Motives Blush Bronzer Duo - $22.50

WHY:  It's a very subtle bronzer AND blush compact- multi-use means less bulk in your makeup bag and a multi-seasonal product means money well spent!  The neutral shade of bronzer combined with a translucent powder make it perfect for anyone wanting to achieve a natural, healthy glow without a "orange" look.



2. Physicians Formula Magic Mosaic Bronzer- $9.00 @ Walmart.com

WHY:  A fine mixture of powder and bronzer shades make it virtually impossible for this to be look orange.  Great price-point, too!



3. Clinique Almost Bronzer SPF15: $29.00 @ Clinique.com

WHY:  You may be noticing a trend here- I like the bronzers that are more than just ONE shade of bronze- I think it gives a much more natural look.  I love this one because it comes in two options- light/medium or medium/deep.  This way, fairer skinned gals aren't stuck trying to work with a dark bronze color (which can easily look unnatural and is harder to apply subtly for fairer skin) and darker ladies can get a nice glow that actually offsets their already tan skin-tone.  And, each compact comes with two shades.  And a bonus, this one contains SPF15!  Get a nice glow while protecting your skin!  I love it!



Now, a very important bit of info is how to apply a bronzer.  It's actually very simple:  Sweep a dusting of bronzer anywhere the sun hits first!  The forhead, across your cheeks and bridge of your nose, and whatever is leftover on your brush- on your chin.  You can go a step further and add a dusting on your shoulders and collar bone for full-body-bronzed effect!

Hope this helps!  Thanks again for reading!

:) Nicole

6.15.2011

Ask ME!

So, because I have been swamped lately, I thought I would try something interactive with you guys-  How about you ask me a beauty question OR tell me something you would like to see a blog about?  I am taking on all serious suggestions here so feel free to shoot me a comment here with your ideas.  I am really looking forward to it!

And because I can't completely leave you empty-handed, I thought I would recommend something today- The June 2011 issue of InStyle magazine is awesome!  There are lots of great articles to read when you have some down-time:  "Pretty summer hair in a snap" and "166 Summer Style Steals Under $50" happen to be my favorite so far.  So, if you need a little inspiration yourself, pick up a copy, flip through it, and I am sure you will have some fresh style tips and maybe even some questions FOR ME! :)

Thanks for reading!

BE WELL! ;)

Nicole

6.12.2011

Protection is very important

So, this weekend I spoke at one of our trainings to a group of new women and men looking to build a business representing Motives.  It was so good for me and I think and hope that I did a good job for everyone that was there.

One of the things that I spoke about was protecting your 'psyche' from negative people.  It's not only important from a business stand-point, but it's extremely important from a personal stand-point when it comes to internal peace and happiness.

As one of my favorite motivational-guru's, Dr. Rob Gilbert has said, "You wouldn't let someone come into your house and throw trash all around in it, so why would you let someone do that to you emotionally?"  It is absolutely the analogy that I needed to hear.  I now feel the need to protect myself from anything and anyone that is going to break-down my spirit.  Of course, it's not always fully avoidable, but, it definitely can be prevented.

You know the negative nilly's in your life- keep them at a distance and the time you spend with them at a minimum.  Think about it:  you spend 20 minutes with them and then a whole day trying to get past the negative virus they spread to you.  Does that sound like a good way to spend your time?  And just think of all of the stress you put on yourself and those around you while you were trying to kick that funk?  NOT WORTH IT.  Instead, spend your time with people who make you laugh, motivate you to be a better person, and that give you a positive outlook on life!  Spending your time any other way is a waste!

And please, please, please....be a positive influence in other people's lives, too!

I always say that positivity is a muscle that has to be exercised.  It's not a natural reaction for humans to be positive- you have to work at it!

 

6.07.2011

Selecting Eyeshadow shades!

EYESHADOW...Probably one of the most FUN and overwhelming choices to make when it comes to make-up!  It's never easy when there are a million options out there!  But, I hope that this post will make it seem more fun and less overwhelming for the next time you go eyeshadow shopping!

I recommend reading the colorwheel post I did a few weeks ago just to help get a little background on color selection.  It's a really interesting process and I think it would be really helpful.

We're going to start with:

BLUE Eyes:

Blue eyes are captivating and beautiful and really a miracle of mother nature!  No two are alike but all are absolutely gorgeous!

Shades of eyeshadow that are great for blue eyes are:

Browns, grays, yellow/gold, red/plum and blue CAN be good too- it just has to be the right shade.  I would suggest navy or a shade that is darker than your eye color- no cotton candy blue or 80's blue unless you are interested in rocking a bolder look.
Blue with GOLD

Blue with PLUM/BROWN

Blue with GRAY




BROWN Eyes:


Browny girls are probably the luckiest when it comes to selection of eyeshadow shades that compliment their eyes!  They can wear just about anything!

Depending on the hues that are in your brown eyes, many different colors can be perfect!  Whatever the dominant hues are in your eyes, pick a shade that is contrasting to them when looking at the colorwheel.




Generally speaking, brown eyes look great with:

purples, golds, greens, pinks/reds, brown


take a look....

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[caption id="attachment_139" align="aligncenter" width="112" caption="Brown with GOLD"][/caption]

[caption id="attachment_138" align="aligncenter" width="106" caption="Brown with PURPLE"][/caption]

[caption id="attachment_143" align="aligncenter" width="112" caption="Brown with GREEN"][/caption]

GREEN & HAZEL Eyes:

These two eye colors can use many of the same and because they are so similar, I decided to list them together.  The important thing to remember about hazel (as with brown) is to focus on the dominant hues when trying to determine the shadow color you should use.  If it is brown, follow the browns, if it is blue, follow the blues and if it is green, well, follow the colors listed here below.  Hazel is a really interesting color!

Gold, prune, sand (shimmer), brown (taupe), coral/red tones


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Green with SAND/BROWN


[caption id="attachment_142" align="aligncenter" width="102" caption="Hazel/Green with RED"][/caption]




I hope that this has been helpful!  These pictures are only to open your mind to the possibility of the color combinations!  Play with it and find the way to make it work for you!  Most importantly, wear it confidently and you will look perfect!

Because I am a real, imperfect, humble person...

I will tell you that even after writing what I thought was a pretty empowering blog post last night, I had to give myself a pep-talk this morning to get ready.  Honestly.  I don't know what it was but I know that my hormones were putting up a good fight and almost won!  I said I was going to the gym and though I was making slow strides to getting there, I was very, very close to falling off the bandwagon.  Then, I logged into Facebook and saw that I had some "fans" of my blog post.  For me, seeing that I had resonated with those fellow mom-friends, I was energized and ready to get out the door.  

And that leads me to my bit of un-beauty-related wisdom today:  

Sometimes, the best thing you can do for yourself is to help someone else.  




Have a blessed, beautiful day!  Don't forget your sunscreen!!!


:)Nicole

6.06.2011

Did someone say "Frumpy"?

The other "F" word!  I grew up hearing this word and never, ever thought it would become a word that would describe me!  Though many of my dearest friends would probably disagree (hence the high placement in my friend hierarchy!), I definitely have succumbed to "frumpiness" since becoming a mother.  Sad, but true.  

Let's be real...when your baby belly is no longer with baby but it's still a belly...it is no fun to get dressed.  When you have dimples in more places that just your face, it's no fun to get dressed.  And, when your new heartthrob (the little cherub!) spits up, wipes food/snot all over you, and you are constantly crawling around on the floor (which, if yours is like ours, is usually spotted with crumbs!), it's also not very much fun to get dressed in anything other than comfortable, very-washable, post-baby-belly hiding, clothes.  But, from my experience, this is a vicious cycle.  The more you lose yourself to "babydom", the more you really lose it!  ...I found that I felt sad, overwhelmed, and unconfident in myself.  It made me bicker with my kids and my husband more often.  It made me never really want to do more than just sit around and play with my kids.  And before I knew it, I felt like I had lost myself and my identity.  And that saddened me more than the baby-belly without the baby.  

I will save my "transformation"/"ah-ha" story for another post (suspense is killing you already, isn't it???), but suffice it to say that one day, I had to conciously decide that I was "taking back my SELF".  I was going to give identity back to this frumpy mom that I had become.  

So, through my second pregnancy, though I donned yoga pants quite regularly, I did make an honest attempt to look as cute as I could.  And, because I was mobile quickly after my daughter was born, I lost the weight faster and felt "alive" faster.  I was so thankful to have my body to myself again and I started treating it that way.  For the past year, I have been putting effort into getting dressed and primped in the morning (or mid-afternoon).  I still do wear yoga pants because they are the most comfortable thing possibly ever, but I have acquired some cute tops and sassy flip flops to dress them up a bit.  I do my makeup every.single.day. and I am so proud to say that!  

It is a labor of love.  Everything in life is!  I never thought much about clothing before- It was easy to buy something I liked in the store and fit it on my size 6 body.  Shorts were rarely too short- my belly never had a jiggly spot that needed concealing, and I never had to wonder "is this appropriate for a mom to wear?"  It was a lot easier back then.  But, it didn't mean as much to me as it does now.  Finding clothing that makes me feel comfortable in my "new" mom body and confident, too, has never been so important.  Putting on a fresh, bright face every morning has never been so critical to my mood and outlook on the day!  I am always ready for someone to stop by- I am ready to go out if I receive an invite!  Being a parent can be confining but not having your makeup done or being dressed appropriately should never be an excuse!  Though there are so many things that change in your life after you have kids, one thing that shouldn't is the level of care that you give to yourself!  It doesn't matter if you are a stay-at-home mom or a working-mom, you should take care to preserve who you are.  You'll be a much better, much happier mom for doing so!  

My 5 favorite tips:

1- Always wear lipgloss, blush, CONCEALER and mascara!

2- Always spray on a fresh, clean fragrance!  I love DKNY Pure.

3- Invest in a cute casual jacket- it's an easy way to add character to an otherwise run-of-the-mill outfit and, it covers up spit up, leaks, drips, and whatever else you could imagine!

4- Short or long, DO YOUR hair at least every other day so that it's still somewhat styled the second day!  

5- Get a cute purse that can be used as a diaper bag.  No more lugging around a Whinny-the-Pooh diaper bag!  If your baby was carrying it, then it would be cute.  But they aren't-- you are!  There's no way to ruin an outfit faster than to finish it with a cartoon-themed diaper bag...okay, barring a diaper explosion...

Hope this helps!  Be well....be beautiful, but most of all, be YOU!

5.25.2011

What is a Custom Blend?

While there are many women out there that know what a Custom Blend is, many do not!  The concept is simple and brilliant and now you will know what it is too!

I would say that 9 out of 10 people go to a department store or their local Target or similar store to purchase most of their makeup.  Then choose their foundation by trying to select a color without being able to try it and by simply looking at the color of the jar.  Typically, the lighting is poor and the color of the product is tainted by the color of the glass which keeps the liquid.  If it is a powder, then, it's also the same issue- it's just very hard to match something that you want to look natural to your skin tone without being able to try it.  More importantly, have you ever heard that no two eyes are alike?  Genetically, it's nearly impossible for any two people (even twins!) to have the same pigmentation in their eyes.  That being said, don't you think your skin is the same?  If that's the case, then how could we ever possibly select the right color for our skin by looking at a line of jars on a counter?  You can't.  Until now!  

So, custom-blending a foundation (both liquid OR powder!) or concealer for someone means mixing the appropriate tones (porcelain, beige, etc.) with the correct undertones (fuschia, yellow - YES, REALLY!) to match their skin perfectly!  We don't aim to neutralize the skin to the point that it looks lifelesss like with many pre-fab formulas, we aim to match the skin and neautralize the appearance of any imperfections in the skin such as blemishes, sunspots, roseaca, or scars while keeping the true color of the skin consistent all over.  Sounds perfect, huh?

We actually go one step further!  We can add sunscreen, firming, hydration or oil control and many other options to truly make this foundation a treatment and foundation all-in-one.  And best of all, it's unique to you just like your skin is!  

You're probably wondering how much a service like this would cost?  Let me tell you, no more than what you'd pay at a department store and this will last you LONGER because you will need less- our pigmentation is almost 50% more than the leading foundations out there!  Also, if your skin tone changes,  we can adjust your formula so that you can continue using what you have.  You will not get this anywhere else!

Now you know what a custom blend IS and WHERE you can get one!  A makeover is always free with any custom-blend purchase!  Leave a comment and let me know what you think!

5.19.2011

You'll get a glimpse of my private side today...

Ok, that totally came out wrong!  It's a good thing I'm not able to specifically track who is reading this because I am not sure I want to know who's checking this post after a title like that!

Anyway, before I forget what I was going to write about, let me get down to business.  I am not going to lie- today's post is going to have nothing to do with Makeup or beauty.  But, I hope it will serve as a public service announcement on why having kids can age you...

This is going to be a long, meandering story- I hope you can keep up!

So, lately, we've been having a little ANT issue.  It's beyond disturbing.  They are the tiny, harmless ants, but they still skeeve me out.  Being that I have two small children who, as small children do, make lot's of organic messes, ants seem to feel right at home here.  No matter if I sweep and vacuum 3 times a day or not. They just seem to like us.  I also blame it on our 100 year old house, but that's another story for another time.

We have been using these liquid ant traps and they've worked, but, still, the Ants prevail.  So, I heard on the radio the other morning that CINNAMON can ward of ants.  If you sprinkle a little bit of cinnamon on the floor the ants will not cross it.  So, being that I just bought a BJ's sized container of Cinnamon, I thought I'd give it a try.  I sprinkled a little bit in the high-traffic ant areas and JOILA!  It worked!  Perfect!

I will come back to this in a minute.  Now, the past few days I have been going to the gym since I am trying to get my tush in shape for 2 5k Runs I am doing at the end of the month.  When we came home from the gym, I had managed, I thought, to get both of my kids to sleep.  I was brazen enough to shower while they slept sweetly.  While in the shower, my 3 year old son crept downstairs and decided to save us from the aforementioned ants.  And when I say "the ants" I mean each and every ant that ever walked the face of the earth- every ant in the tri-state area, every ant and its' mother...Ok, you follow me....As I stepped out of my relaxing, hot, steamy shower- I was greeted (I mean knocked over!) by the scent of Cinammon and then I heard little scampering feet.  My senses told me that trouble was a'brewing.  I took a deep breath (mmm, Cinnamon!) and slowly went downstairs to find the entire dining room floor covered in red-brown powder...my sons feet and hands were also covered in red-brown powder...and something that should smell warm, inviting, and nostalgic quickly became sickening!  I'll spare you the psycho mom, cleaning with a vengeance details and skip ahead to today...

I had my sweet, innocent (but full of naughty potential, I am sure) 1 year old sleeping soundly.  I managed to get the 3 year old sleeping again, too.  I settled in to do some work, pay some bills, get some laundry and other housework done, when, who comes slinking downstairs hiding his face?  You guessed it!  And why the hidden face?  Oh, only because he had painted his face with lipgloss and lip liner and eyeliner, and whatever else he found in my makeup kit that I use for WORK!  But, it wasn't enough fun to put all of this on his face...it had to be smeared on my bed, too.  

Did I mention that this could be a great public service announcement about kids and the way they age you?  Maybe I should also add how they: destroy your home and the things in it, eat all of your food, dirty every possible article of clothing you will put on their first 10 years of life, create science experiments out of every room in the house, clog your toilet, dig in your flower pots, break the heels off of your favorite stilettos while playing "dress-up", deprive you of sleep, patience, cleanliness, personal time, and adult snacks, music, and movies, and so many more?!?!  Ok, now that I covered all of that....I guess I should mention one more thing:  How they will inevitably find a way to melt your heart in just the right moment and make you see that none of those things mattered anyway.  That the reward is not in those things- it's in the prideful moments like when they offer to share a snack with a stranger or they hold the door for a mom who's struggling with her arms full of babies, or they wave at that elderly person in the grocery store and you're happy because you know that YOUR kid made them smile!  

While writing this, I was offered a "cup of coffee" for "while I work" and I was protected from more ants (only with an empty container of cinnamon this time!).  My 3 year old can absolutely cause some gray hairs and fine lines, but, I wouldn't trade my life with my kids for a younger looking face or body ever.  Every bit of stress has been worth it!

Hope you enjoyed reading this=)  Back to beauty (HOPEFULLY!) tomorrow!  

Be Well:) Nicole
Here's the little rascal being sweet and cute and ooeygooey!  <3

5.17.2011

Smokey Eye is not just black anymore!

I personally cannot wear a smokey eye.  I have a hooded lid and dark eyes and the smokey eye look just doesn't work well for me.  But, I do think I could do a degree of a purple smokey eye (seen above) and I think it's something anyone could do.  It's beautiful and not overdone and using the proper depth of colors, could work with any eye shape and skin tone.  I especially love the purple for this dark brown eye because it brings out the gold tones in the eye, but I also love that that smokey eye doesn't over take her whole eye.  Can you picture this with golds and browns or teals and greys?  Or even an olive shadow with a darker brown anchor shadow?  You could even use a red shadow with brown...Would be beautiful and dramatic yet not as overpowering as the traditional black smokey eye.  Beauty is about constantly evolving and finding ways to make trends work for you.  Don't ever count a specific trend out, just try to be creative and think outside the box!

5.12.2011

...a little tease...

From shimmer to matte, sparkle to pearl, we have it ALL,,,








A good kind of problem to have!

I was talking to my husband the other day about the cosmetic line I rep (poor guy, he hears it all!) and explaining to him something that I recently realized!

My whole life, I was never a foundation-wearer.  I didn't do powder, foundation, nothing!  After I had my 1st baby, my son, I was sleep deprived and I started to have an issue with the dark circles under my eyes.  So, I added concealer to my very simple routine.  It was sometime between baby 1 and baby 2 that I met up with my good friend who introduced me to Motives in the first place.  In an effort to support her, I let her make me a custom blend mineral powder foundation.  I used it the next day and quickly became hooked.  I had tried Bare Minerals before but was displeased because I felt like it had a powdery look which I just can't stand.  However, I did not find that to be the case with my Motives Mineral Powder.  It truly looked natural, didn't feel dry, and it gave a nice coverage.  Soon after, I became a rep myself and ended up trying a new foundation- the current #1 selling foundation for our company- the Liquid-to-Powder Mineral Foundation.  And, wouldn't you know it?  I loved it, too!  I used that for almost a whole year before I decided to go back and try something else.  This time,  I made myself a custom-blended liquid mineral foundation.  Not surprisingly, I fell in love with that one too.  With each one I felt I had found something better than the last.  For someone who never wore foundation, I truly find this amazing!

But, here's the real kicker... Because I still have all of these foundations, I switch between them every so often for different reasons- every time I switch to a new one, I say to myself, "This one's my favorite!" and then I go to the next one and say the same thing.  I literally cannot decide which one I like the best!  They all feel completely natural and have great coverage so it's so hard to decide.  All things considered, I do think I like my custom liquid foundation the best but that's because I have customized it exactly to my liking by adding a hydrator, a botanical treatment, and a anti-aging treatment.  Every time I put it on I feel like I am nourishing my face.  It's perfect for me.  And, I bet you I could make you one that is perfect for you!  The best part?  This summer, as my face gets more tan, I can add more pigment to my formula and darken it without having to buy a whole new bottle!  Less waste, less money= HAPPY GIRL!

So, I am in love with 3 foundations!  I'd say that's a good problem to have, wouldn't you??!  Are there any products out there that you are in love with?